25 Ways to Make your Valentine’s Day More Sustainable

Valentine’s Day has many historical roots in Catholic and Roman celebrations about fertility, love, birds, and the coming spring. Popularized by English poets, Valentine’s letters were shared as far back as the Middle Ages. By the 1700s, Valentine’s Day was becoming popularly celebrated. Today, Valentine’s Day is a wonderful way to celebrate love, not only among romantic partners, but with friends, family, and pets as well.

However, as with most holiday celebrations, there are some challenges with this scale of gift giving. In 2020, the National Retail Federation estimated that over $21 billion was spent on Valentine’s Day in the U.S. and in 2021, spending levels are expected to rise to about $24 billion. This works out to about $175 per person for those who celebrate. While people give many different types of valentines, chocolate and flowers are two of the most common gifts.

Unfortunately, both chocolate and flowers can have significant sustainability challenges including child labor, pesticide usage, deforestation, carbon emissions through refrigeration and transportation, as well as other environmental issues. So if giving chocolate or flowers, it’s helpful to look for fair trade and organic certifications, as well as local production. Below are some more suggestions for celebrating Valentine’s Day more sustainably:

Gift a local experience

  • Cooking classes
  • Painting classes
  • Walking tours
  • Local wine, beer, or other tasting tours
  • Make your own pottery
  • Glass-making classes
One of our favorite ways to explore cities together is walking tours. Seth and I were recently invited to embark on Historic America’s inaugural U Street Music and Murals Tour – and in just over two hours, it ignited all of our senses as we saw, touched, listened to, and TASTED different aspects of Washington, DC.

Celebrate Valentine’s Day’s historical connections to birds & spring by gifting-

  • Bird feeders, baths, seed
  • Books about local birds
  • Native pollinator plants
  • A guided bird watching tour

Gift outdoor conservation

We love to support nature and to spend time outdoors with our friends and family. One of our favorite gifts is the Annual National Parks Pass.

We got a lot of use out of our Annual National Parks Pass this year at Joshua Tree, Haleakala, Hawai’i Volcanoes, Shenandoah, and Death Valley National Parks.

If your loved ones already have national park passes, consider:                     

  • a state or local park pass
  • a guided nature tour with a local guide
  • membership to an arboretum or local gardens
  • a native plant gardening class
  • an indoor plant or window herb garden

Celebrate local art and artists-        

  • Give handmade, local jewelry
  • Join a local art museum
  • Give a painting, drawing, or locally made craft or clothing
  • Share a night out at a concert or at the theater

Create your gifts –

Personally created gifts never go out of style and create great memories:

  • Cook someone their favorite meal
  • Print photos of shared moments or create a shared memories book
  • Plant native pollinator friendly plants for your patio or garden

Look for gifts to reuse or upcycle –

Secondhand stores, yard sales, and online resale sites are all great ways to select a personal and meaningful gift for a loved one, such as vintage jewelry. Thrifting is also a planet-friendly way to snag yourself a new Valentine’s Day look. Sharing more Valentine’s Day outfit ideas and inspiration here.  

Donating to your loved one’s favorite charity in their honor

This gift can be both meaningful and impactful! At Happily Ever Exploring, we are giving the gift of environmental education this year and donating to one of our favorite non-profits, Engage Globally, an organization that supports community-led sustainable development in Northern Ghana.

For a donation of $25, Engage offers gifts like a native tree planted and raised by youth in a school garden, where students learn to sustainably grow food and also engage in fun, hands-on learning activities.

Need a gift for a young person?

  • We love 4Ocean’s upcycled plastic water bottles, bracelets and other products. Purchase of each item funds removal of plastic from beaches and oceans.
  • National Geographic for Kids – This is a year-long gift and you can choose from early reader and older child versions, digital or print. 

We hope you found these suggestions useful. If you’re looking for even more ideas, check out our post on sustainable swaps for conventional Valentine’s Day gifts to help you gift greener this year. Please let us know if you used any of these ideas below. And, if you have other sustainable gift giving suggestions, we would love to hear them as well!

With love, Aleah

One Comment

  1. Enjoyed your articles, on this Valentine’s Day. So glad you enjoyed the tour in D.C. Sending our love to you!! Nan & J oJo.

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